If one is honest, one can naively think that others will be too. And therefore, to swallow all the lies of everyday life, in particular those that men can tell us. With experience, however, love stories and breakups having come a long way, we easily fall from the top when we realize that in the end, we were really the only honest person for miles around.
We’re not going to say that “all men are rubbish” and that all lie, that’s not the point… Simply that they are not necessarily the most creative and that they end up telling the same lies ! Of course, sometimes women also lie: no one is perfect and everyone can have their faults in a relationship. But to get what they want from their partner, men often recycle the same lies.
It’s all your fault anyway
” We were never a couple anyway! You made a film for yourself, I have always been very clear. If you take it the wrong way, it’s your fault. »
We all know a man who has already told us that, or a girlfriend to whom it happened, simply to justify her fear of commitment to him. It’s just a way of blaming the other person and feeling better about being the victim. Big red flag if in addition to that he adds a little ” you’re crazy for having believed that the guy we saw almost every day was our guy. It’s just called a cowardly guy.
We’re not together anymore, I swear to you
” We are no longer together », « We’re taking a break », « I’m waiting for her to move “.
Yes, men lie easily about their relationship status. Yes, it’s possible that some are actually separated, but most of the time they’re just not happy in their relationship and will make up stories to try to get out of it – for one night or longer. Why stay in a relationship that does not suit them but still go elsewhere? Very often, out of pride and ease. Rather than face the failure of their relationship or try to improve it, they will find it easier togo look somewhere else to satisfy their sexual needs while keeping someone on hand who will constantly take care of them. Butter, butter money, and creamer’s ass.
I was just with friends, nothing fancy
” I was just with my buddies last night, nothing out of the ordinary. »
Maybe he was just being with his buddies, or he just doesn’t want to tell you he sees other people because he likes you too. If you are not officially “in a relationship”, of course he owes you nothing. But the truth always comes out eventually just be honest from the start. And if you’re sleeping together, it’s better to know if he sees other people…
you never look fat
” But yes, this dress suits you well. », « All outfits suit you »…
So, ok, these are “good” lies, since they are mostly about be careful not to hurt ourselves nor upset us. Basically, this lie allows him to maintain a certain harmony. It’s nice, but sometimes it’s better to tell the truth, rather than lying and then cheating on your partner “because she has gained a lot of weight anyway” (run away!).
What, her? But no, there is nothing!
” She added me as a friend, but there’s nothing, we dated a long time ago! », « Yes I subscribed to his account but I like his travel photos “.
Yeah, he’s probably still talking to his ex. Maybe just out of nostalgia. Or maybe they have some weird bond that you’ll never be a part of and, yes, there’s a good chance he’ll see her again without you knowing about it.
I will make you cum
” You will have trouble walking », « I will make you scream »…
Pity. There’s only one type of man who doesn’t lie about his penis: the one with a really big one, which risks frightening his conquests. Most men are going to overdo things, especially if the size of this one confuses them – like most men. They lie to make you think they have more skills than they really have to make sure you stay; when everyone knows (except them) that what matters is not the size but what they know how to do with it…
I’m not ready yet
” I have to find myself first », « I’m not ready for a relationship yet », « I’m going through a tough time right now. “.
Yes, he is going through a complicated period. A period which would however be much simpler if he had not all these lies trying to hold back. It’s not thathe is not ready to have a romantic relationship. Only that he doesn’t want one with you.
You really need to go check it out.
“ It’s all in your head… You’re crazy », «You really need to see a psychiatrist “.
Pompon on the Garonne if he belittles you and tells you that you are crazy to better control yourself. This is called a gaslighterthat’s to say a manipulator. If he can make you think you’re crazy, then he can do whatever he wants and get away with showing you how overreacting you are. The gaslighter are a certain category of narcissistic perverts, and while you may need therapy to get back on your feet after a relationship with this type of person, it is he who needs to change and not the reverse.
I can’t wait for you to tell me about your day
” I love our talks », « I can’t wait to see you and tell me more “.
They want to learn more about you but when the time comes, you’ve barely started your story when you find yourself in panties. How ?! He’s trying to make you think he wants to get to know you when he just wants to sleep with you. It is surely the lie that earns him the most, because if he had said ” I want to fuck tonight many people would have said “no” to this meeting!
I’m not ready for the kind of relationship you’re looking for
” I’m not ready to commit », « I didn’t behave well with you and I’m sorry. I think it’s better that we stop here “.
He will avoid saying thathe is not in love or that he no longer feels anything for you to avoid hurting you. The famous “ It’s not you, it’s me “. For once it’s true, but it doesn’t hurt any less.
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